Friendship isn't just a 10 lettered word, it isn't something which is as easy as just joking around some people who are mildly interested in your sometimes-not-so-interesting jokes or just hanging/chilling out with them. It means much more than that. And by the looks of it, only a few people have been able to understand what it means.
I am not a person who has had many people to call as her friends leave alone "true friends", there are some sad days where I go through my contacts list and not be able to find any person I can talk to. But I do have a few people for whom I care about deeply and whose happiness matters to me (of course the sadness matters too.) And believe me, having a lesser number of friends is a very amazing thing because in today's world people are more depressed than happy and dealing with the depression of many people at once will finally take a toll on you. :P
I think if I've learned anything about friendship, it's to hang in, stay connected, fight for them, and let them fight for you. Don't walk away, don't be distracted, don't be too busy or tired, don't take them for granted. Friends are part of the glue that holds life and faith together. Powerful stuff.
You know those times when you and your best friend crack the same joke or maybe think of the same thing at the same time, talk about stuff no one else understands is a definitive proof that friendship is just one soul dwelling in two bodies. There is a saying which says, " You need only one good friend to get you through anything and everything" and I couldn't agree more with it. Just one person who understands you at your worst and at your best, who listens just not for the sake of replying back and is there for you no matter how hectic his/her schedule gets is the one who deserves to be in your life right till the end. You shouldn't push such people away because one day you might just wake up and realize that you lost the moon while searching for the stars and that might be the saddest day in your life.
On an ending note;
I am not a person who has had many people to call as her friends leave alone "true friends", there are some sad days where I go through my contacts list and not be able to find any person I can talk to. But I do have a few people for whom I care about deeply and whose happiness matters to me (of course the sadness matters too.) And believe me, having a lesser number of friends is a very amazing thing because in today's world people are more depressed than happy and dealing with the depression of many people at once will finally take a toll on you. :P
I think if I've learned anything about friendship, it's to hang in, stay connected, fight for them, and let them fight for you. Don't walk away, don't be distracted, don't be too busy or tired, don't take them for granted. Friends are part of the glue that holds life and faith together. Powerful stuff.
You know those times when you and your best friend crack the same joke or maybe think of the same thing at the same time, talk about stuff no one else understands is a definitive proof that friendship is just one soul dwelling in two bodies. There is a saying which says, " You need only one good friend to get you through anything and everything" and I couldn't agree more with it. Just one person who understands you at your worst and at your best, who listens just not for the sake of replying back and is there for you no matter how hectic his/her schedule gets is the one who deserves to be in your life right till the end. You shouldn't push such people away because one day you might just wake up and realize that you lost the moon while searching for the stars and that might be the saddest day in your life.
On an ending note;
“Friends.
They aren’t any such thing as good friend or bad friend.
Maybe there are just friend.
People who stand by you when you're hurt and who helped you feel not so lonely.
Maybe there are worth being scared for and hoping for and living for.
Maybe worth dying for too.
If that what has to be.
No bad friends.
Only people you want.
Need to be with.
People who build their houses in your heart.”
They aren’t any such thing as good friend or bad friend.
Maybe there are just friend.
People who stand by you when you're hurt and who helped you feel not so lonely.
Maybe there are worth being scared for and hoping for and living for.
Maybe worth dying for too.
If that what has to be.
No bad friends.
Only people you want.
Need to be with.
People who build their houses in your heart.”
Have a good day!
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